For death is certain for the born, and birth is certain for the dead. Therefore you should not grieve over what is unavoidable.
जातस्य हि ध्रुवो मृत्युर्ध्रुवं जन्म मृतस्य च | तस्मादपरिहार्येऽर्थे न त्वं शोचितुमर्हसि ||२-२७||
Grief is a universal human experience addressed across world spiritual traditions. Many traditions converge on the idea that grief is a natural process. They diverge in their perspectives on its purpose and resolution.
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For death is certain for the born, and birth is certain for the dead. Therefore you should not grieve over what is unavoidable.
जातस्य हि ध्रुवो मृत्युर्ध्रुवं जन्म मृतस्य च | तस्मादपरिहार्येऽर्थे न त्वं शोचितुमर्हसि ||२-२७||
It is said to be unmanifest, unthinkable, and unchanging. Therefore, knowing it to be so, you should not grieve.
अव्यक्तोऽयमचिन्त्योऽयमविकार्योऽयमुच्यते | तस्मादेवं विदित्वैनं नानुशोचितुमर्हसि ||२-२५||
The Blessed Lord said: You grieve for those who should not be grieved for, yet you speak words of wisdom. The wise grieve neither for the living nor for the dead.
श्रीभगवानुवाच | अशोच्यानन्वशोचस्त्वं प्रज्ञावादांश्च भाषसे | गतासूनगतासूंश्च नानुशोचन्ति पण्डिताः ||२-११||
And even if you think of it as constantly being born and constantly dying, still, mighty-armed one, you should not grieve like this.
अथ चैनं नित्यजातं नित्यं वा मन्यसे मृतम् | तथापि त्वं महाबाहो नैवं शोचितुमर्हसि ||२-२६||
Sanjaya said: Having spoken thus to Krishna, Arjuna, scorcher of foes, said to Govinda, I will not fight, and fell silent.
सञ्जय उवाच | एवमुक्त्वा हृषीकेशं गुडाकेशः परन्तप | न योत्स्य इति गोविन्दमुक्त्वा तूष्णीं बभूव ह ||२-९||
For I do not see what would drive away the grief that withers my senses, even were I to win unrivaled and prosperous kingship over the earth, or even lordship over the gods.
न हि प्रपश्यामि ममापनुद्याद् यच्छोकमुच्छोषणमिन्द्रियाणाम् | अवाप्य भूमावसपत्नमृद्धं राज्यं सुराणामपि चाधिपत्यम् ||२-८||
Sanjaya said: To him thus overcome with compassion, his eyes filled with tears and troubled, sunk in despair, Krishna spoke these words:
सञ्जय उवाच | तं तथा कृपयाविष्टमश्रुपूर्णाकुलेक्षणम् | विषीदन्तमिदं वाक्यमुवाच मधुसूदनः ||२-१||
Sanjaya said: Having spoken thus on the field of battle, Arjuna sank down onto the seat of his chariot, casting aside his bow and arrows, his mind overwhelmed with grief.
सञ्जय उवाच | एवमुक्त्वार्जुनः सङ्ख्ये रथोपस्थ उपाविशत् | विसृज्य सशरं चापं शोकसंविग्नमानसः ||१-४७||
I do not desire victory, Krishna, nor kingdom, nor pleasures. What use to us is kingdom, Govinda, what use are enjoyments, or even life itself?
न काङ्क्षे विजयं कृष्ण न च राज्यं सुखानि च | किं नो राज्येन गोविन्द किं भोगैर्जीवितेन वा ||१-३२||
The Gandiva bow slips from my hand, my skin burns all over, I cannot stand steady, and my mind seems to reel.
गाण्डीवं स्रंसते हस्तात्त्वक्चैव परिदह्यते | न च शक्नोम्यवस्थातुं भ्रमतीव च मे मनः ||१-३०||
my limbs give way and my mouth goes dry, my body trembles and my hair stands on end.
सीदन्ति मम गात्राणि मुखं च परिशुष्यति | वेपथुश्च शरीरे मे रोमहर्षश्च जायते ||१-२९||
Nor do we know which is better for us: that we should conquer them, or that they should conquer us. Those very sons of Dhritarashtra, after killing whom we would not wish to live, stand facing us.
न चैतद्विद्मः कतरन्नो गरीयो यद्वा जयेम यदि वा नो जयेयुः | यानेव हत्वा न जिजीविषामस्- तेऽवस्थिताः प्रमुखे धार्तराष्ट्राः ||२-६||
It would be better for me if the sons of Dhritarashtra, weapons in hand, were to kill me, unresisting and unarmed, in the battle.
यदि मामप्रतीकारमशस्त्रं शस्त्रपाणयः | धार्तराष्ट्रा रणे हन्युस्तन्मे क्षेमतरं भवेत् ||१-४६||
What joy would be ours, Janardana, from killing Dhritarashtra's sons? Only sin would fall upon us from killing these aggressors.
निहत्य धार्तराष्ट्रान्नः का प्रीतिः स्याज्जनार्दन | पापमेवाश्रयेदस्मान्हत्वैतानाततायिनः ||१-३६||
Those for whose sake we desire kingdom, enjoyments, and pleasures stand here in battle, giving up their lives and their wealth:
येषामर्थे काङ्क्षितं नो राज्यं भोगाः सुखानि च | त इमेऽवस्थिता युद्धे प्राणांस्त्यक्त्वा धनानि च ||१-३३||
I see adverse omens, Keshava, and I foresee no good in killing my own people in battle.
निमित्तानि च पश्यामि विपरीतानि केशव | न च श्रेयोऽनुपश्यामि हत्वा स्वजनमाहवे ||१-३१||
overcome with deep compassion, said this in despair: Arjuna said: Seeing my own people, Krishna, gathered here eager to fight,
कृपया परयाविष्टो विषीदन्निदमब्रवीत् | अर्जुन उवाच | दृष्ट्वेमं स्वजनं कृष्ण युयुत्सुं समुपस्थितम् ||१-२८||
There Arjuna saw, standing in both armies, fathers and grandfathers, teachers, uncles, brothers, sons, grandsons, and friends,
तत्रापश्यत्स्थितान्पार्थः पितॄनथ पितामहान् | आचार्यान्मातुलान्भ्रातॄन्पुत्रान्पौत्रान्सखींस्तथा ||१-२६||
The person who possesses such a soul can never be defeated by sorrow or pain. They are as pure as the gods, high-minded, and wise, with no secrets hidden from them.
Weep for God with a heart full of longing. The tears you shed for Him will wash away the impurities, and only then will you be drawn to the divine magnet, allowing you to attain yoga.