Friend and foe, joy and sorrow - all these opposing pairs in this world are mere illusions with no real substance.
Hindu
Sugriva
Sugriva is the noble vanara king of Kishkindha in the Hindu epic Ramayana, honored as the loyal friend and ally of Lord Rama, whose gratitude, steadfastness, and devoted help in the quest for Sita made him a cherished emblem of friendship and dharma.
Sugriva is among the most warmly remembered figures of the Ramayana, the great Hindu epic ascribed to the sage Valmiki. He is a vanara, one of the noble forest-dwelling people whose courage and devotion play a central part in the unfolding of Rama's sacred journey. His very name, meaning "the one with a beautiful neck," carries a note of grace, and tradition honors him as a son of Surya, the radiant sun deity, a heavenly parentage that marks him as a being of light and high destiny. As king of Kishkindha, the storied vanara realm, Sugriva occupies a place of enduring affection in the devotional memory of the tradition. The heart of Sugriva's story is his celebrated friendship with Lord Rama, the prince of Ayodhya and an avatar of Vishnu. When Rama, accompanied by his devoted brother Lakshmana, journeyed through the forests in search of his beloved wife Sita, who had become parted from him, it was Sugriva's wise minister Hanuman who first welcomed them with discernment and courtesy. Through Hanuman's gentle counsel, Sugriva and Rama met upon the slopes of Mount Rishyamukha and there sealed a bond of friendship before the witness of the sacred fire. This sworn alliance, kindled in mutual trust and sustained by unwavering good faith, has come down through the ages as one of the tradition's most beautiful illustrations of true friendship, in which two noble hearts pledge to stand by one another and honor their word without reserve. What the tradition cherishes most in Sugriva is his profound gratitude and his fidelity to a promise once given. Having received Rama's friendship and help, Sugriva devoted himself wholly to Rama's cause. He summoned the vast vanara host and dispatched search parties to the four quarters of the earth to find the whereabouts of Sita, sparing no effort and counting no distance too great. It was the southern party, guided by Sugriva's trust in Hanuman, that at last discovered Sita held in distant Lanka. In this way Sugriva's loyal labor became the very hinge on which the rescue turned, and the tradition remembers him as one who repaid kindness many times over, embodying the teaching that gratitude is among the noblest of virtues. Sugriva's leadership shines throughout the later chapters of the epic. As king of Kishkindha he gathered an immense host of vanaras and bears, and he placed all of its strength at Rama's service in the great endeavor to bring Sita home. He stood among the foremost in the noble effort, lending his own steadfastness and the loyalty of his people to the righteous cause. His mobilizing of the search and the host displays a gift for organization, decisiveness, and inspiring leadership, qualities that made him a worthy sovereign and a dependable ally. The epic delights in the image of the vanara companies, joyful and tireless, helping to raise the great causeway and rallying around their king and their divine friend. Beyond his deeds, Sugriva is remembered for the warmth and humanity of his character. He is portrayed as a leader capable of deep feeling, of friendship freely given, and of reverence toward the divine. His relationship with Hanuman, the peerless devotee, reflects his wisdom in keeping wise and faithful counsel close at hand, and his honoring of Hanuman's judgment shows a ruler secure enough to trust the gifts of those around him. In his devotion to Rama, Sugriva also models the soul that recognizes the Lord and surrenders to his service, finding its highest fulfillment in helping the divine purpose come to pass. The figure of Sugriva endures across the vast living tradition of the Ramayana, retold lovingly in Valmiki's Sanskrit verses, in Tulsidas's Ramcharitmanas, and in countless regional renderings across India and Southeast Asia. In temple sculpture, classical dance, shadow theater, and the beloved retellings recited in homes during Ramnavami and other holy occasions, Sugriva appears as the steadfast friend whose gratitude never wavered. He stands, alongside Hanuman and the vanara host, as a reminder that the great work of righteousness is accomplished not by one alone but through faithful alliance, willing service, and hearts united in a worthy cause. For these reasons Sugriva remains a cherished and honored presence in Hindu devotional life, a king whose loyalty, gratitude, and friendship continue to inspire all who hear his story.
Wisdom
Be true to your noble nature and do not let despair control your soul.
Get up, consult and plan to build a bridge across the sea to reach the city of our enemy that is situated on the mountain by the beach.
This unnecessary sorrow, get rid of it. Till now, everything has been fine and we have found your queen and know where our enemy Rákshas lives.
In the entire universe, I do not see anyone who can equal you in a fight. No one can stand in front of you and face the bow in your hand.
The Lord says, 'Listen, O hero of Raghu's line; sorrow no more and take courage in your heart. I will render service to you in every way so that Janaka's daughter may come and see you.'
My mind is at peace, Lord, thanks to your grace. I renounce all worldly pleasures, wealth, home, and personal glory to serve you.